4 Ways in Which Single, Christian Men Can Improve Their Communication

For single Christian men, the world of dating may be hard to navigate. The truth is that there is no hard-and-fast rule which can land you your dream partner. People are different, and as such cannot be filed under labels of behaviour. Not all single, Christian women want to stay at home and keep house, while not all single, Christian men want a perfect trophy wife. Understanding the complexities of finding the right partner doesn’t make the process any easier – it further complicates things. There is, however, one aspect of interpersonal relationships that can always do with improvement: Communication.

Single men who have tried dating without success may find that they struggle to show who they really are to prospective partners because miscommunication leaves both parties feeling disconnected. Think of communication as an open highway between two people – now imagine this highway obstructed by traffic, and there is no way for the message to reach its intended destination. How do we clear the traffic up? At Perfect Strangers, we understand just how significant a role communication plays in the dating process, and we’ve put together some principles of which to remain mindful.

  1. Be An Active Listener

Single men often feel the need to impress women with tall tales of bravado, but incessant talking might have the opposite effect. Most women will tell you that they want to feel heard, and a man who cannot listen is an instant turn-off. Listen carefully to what your date is expressing to you and try to respond appropriately.

  1. Pay Attention to Body Language

According to some studies, non-verbal communication is more important than spoken words. Pay attention to your posture, eye contact, and how often you smile. Reciprocating your date’s facial expressions conveys that you are empathetic and understand what she is saying.

  1. Speak Honestly and Openly

As a Christian gentleman, honesty and integrity are imperative. Women don’t respond well if they feel they are being lied to, so it is best to remain open about your life from the get-go. While you might think it’s impressive to spin a yarn about your job or salary, it won’t be pleasant when the truth finally comes out.

  1. Ask Questions

Asking questions shows your date that you take an interest in her life. Avoid run-of-the-mill queries and interrogations and focus on open-ended questions that encourage conversation.

Communication takes practice and time, so don’t get discouraged if you’re still working on it. If you are seeking single, Christian women to date in a safe and fun way, register today with Perfect Strangers to start your journey of finding love.

Marilyn Welch

Owner of Perfect Strangers

Marilyn Welch is the owner of Perfect Strangers Introduction Society for Professionals and in the last year, many of the clients who joined Perfect Strangers met someone special, often within a very few short months. Would you love to meet your soulmate?  If you fit our niche market and feel that you would like to work with me, register today.