The Key to Achieving Self-Growth

Never before has there been so much focus on self-growth and self-improvement as there is now. People are searching for answers, techniques, and advice on how to improve their quality of life. There is a growing number of articles, websites, and books covering these topics, and everyone wants to know the key to success. Although it is important to educate yourself as much as you can, it is even more important to put these techniques into practise. Inner change is only possible if you have the motivation, ambition, and dedication to make it happen. These three steps elaborate on the main focus point of achieving self-growth:

1. Put Focus at the Forefront

If you are focused and dedicated, you’ll build new habits that will in turn create a new lifestyle. It is natural to encounter some inner resistance that comes with your old habits and even resistance and opposition from people around you. Perhaps the best way to kick-start self-growth is to watch other people’s behaviour. If they behave in a certain kind of way that you do not like, examine yourself to see if you possess the same behaviour. If you do, change your mindset and imagine how you would behave differently and in an appropriate manner in the same situation. This will increase your knowledge and understanding how your mind and thoughts influence your behaviour and actions.

2. The Power of Positive Thinking

Observe the way people behave and watch how they are treated by others and react to other people. Try to focus on their body language and tone of voice. If you don’t like what you see, analyse the reason why you don’t like it. To achieve self-growth, you need to own your behaviour and therefore need to be able to identify whether you behave the same way or not. Although it’s not always a pleasant thing to do, you have to be honest with yourself. Should you discover that you have the same behaviour you dislike in other people, make yourself aware of it each time you do it and do your best to avoid it.

3. Work on Yourself Daily

Think about why you want to change and be more self-aware in the first place. Make a conscious decision to act in a way that makes you feel good about yourself. If you feel good and treat others well, people will notice it immediately. It does not matter how many times you fail or forget to behave in the way you desire, never give up. Soon you will see how your life will change. Self-growth should always be an ongoing process in your life and something you want to be working on, whether you’re single or in a relationship.

Find Your Partner in Life

It’s in your hands to change the things you’re not happy with about yourself, whether it be the inner or outer you. It’s also in your hands to find happiness out there with someone who also encourages self-growth. To let us help you find that someone, register on our website today and find your soulmate with us.

Marilyn Welch

Owner of Perfect Strangers

Marilyn Welch is the owner of Perfect Strangers Introduction Society for Professionals and in the last year, many of the clients who joined Perfect Strangers met someone special, often within a very few short months. Would you love to meet your soulmate?  If you fit our niche market and feel that you would like to work with me, register today.