Did you know that your values are a very important factor in any relationship?
What are your values? What are the things in life that are most important to you? Can you rank them starting with the most important ones? How do you determine what your real values are? It is important to know what really matters to you in life, because you will structure your life around those things and they will affect how you conduct your relationships with your loved ones.
It is quite likely that you and your partner will each have a completely different hierarchy of values. Believe it or not, it is human nature to put loyalty to your values first in your life, even before loyalty to your partner! Therefore, it is important to link your most important values with the most important values of your loved one, so that you can have things in common. If you want to be a hit with your partner, speak in terms of his/her values, and you will be able to successfully speak into their life!
I would suggest that you think very carefully about what is important to you. Here are some questions you can ask yourself to find out what really matters to you:
How do you fill your space?
How do you spend your time?
How do you spend your energy
How do you spend your money?
What do you think about?
What do you visualise?
What do you speak about with others?
There are 7 areas in our lives to which these questions can apply:
Apply each question to each of the 7 areas listed above. It may take you a while, but you will come away with a much better idea of what you should be looking for in a partner. This could actually save you years of time, as there is nothing as pointless as spending time with the wrong choice of person.
To find more information on your values and how they are important to your relationships, read the book “The Heart of Love” by Dr John Demartini.
© 2009, 2013, 2018 Marilyn Welch.
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